There is a fairly popular saying here in Australia that goes something like this: Show me your friends, and I can tell you what kind of person you are, and this is so incredibly true. If you surround yourself with negative colleagues, then you, too, will become a negative person. If you are always around people who have a positive outlook on life and have a half-glass-full attitude, then you can be pretty sure that you will be a positive person as well. If you’re finding that your social circle isn’t what it should be, then maybe it’s time to upgrade and find better people.
There is only so much time that you can spend with your sex doll alone, and although you enjoy this quality time, you really do need to get yourself outside and engage with some real people.
You want to find new friends not only to decrease your stress and anxiety levels butt to make some good contacts in this world that can help to give you a leg up when you need it the most. The following are just some top tips to help you build up your social circle here in Australia.
- Go out by yourself – You may have to leave your comfort zone, and although it is easier to go out with the friends that you currently have, these are the people that you’re trying to move away from. It makes more sense, then, to venture out by yourself the next time because this will encourage you to engage with new people. You also don’t want to be taking people with you who you’re not happy being around because, in all likelihood, they will drive new friends away from you. We are all judged by the company that we keep, so try to engage with people with something to say.
- Start traveling a little bit more. This doesn’t mean traveling domestically around Australia because you will meet a different class of people when you travel the globe. On your travels, you will meet many interesting people from many different cultures, and you can decide which ones you want to stay in contact with and which ones you want to give false contact details to. If you want to meet a better class of people, then stop talking about money and the material things that you have because people with money despise this kind of conversation.
- Try to become the ‘yes’ person – There is quite a famous movie about this starring Jim Carrey, and it is about a guy who stops saying no and just says yes to everything. You need to be this type of person and get yourself out of your comfort zone so that you can experience new things and meet many new people. It doesn’t matter if you’ve never played golf before because if you are invited by influential friends for a round, then get yourself some clubs and get out there and try.
If there is one thing that many people appreciate, especially those from a better background, it is the fact that you have an excellent education. This will allow you to engage in real conversations about real things that are happening all around the world. If you lack educational qualifications, then maybe you can do some studying online, and this is something that you can do when you have free time.